This afternoon, I met with Z—someone who reached out through the website with a desire to talk about Christianity, Genesis, and the deeper questions stirring within. Queer, curious, and courageous, Z was searching for comfort, acceptance, and affirmation from the church.

Z shared a journey marked by exploration of gender identity and sexual orientation, a longing to be seen and embraced by faith communities, and a deep wrestling with Scripture and tradition. Z hoped to find space within the story of God—not just for tolerance, but for love. Not just for silence, but for affirmation.

We talked about grace, belonging, and the possibility of a faith that affirms rather than excludes. Z’s questions were honest and searching, rooted in a desire to reconcile identity with belief, and to find a spiritual home that welcomes all of who Z is.

Z’s bravery stood out. To show up, ask hard questions, and risk vulnerability in a space that hasn’t always been safe—that takes courage. The church must do better. We must become places where people like Z don’t have to wonder if they belong. Where stories like Z’s are not just welcomed, but honored.

This afternoon was a sacred moment. A reminder that theology is no just about doctrine—it’s about people. It’s about love. It’s about listening deeply and responding with compassion.

To Z: thank you for trusting me with your story. You are seen. You are loved. And your journey matters.

If you find yourself searching—wondering where you fit, longing for a space to ask questions and be heard—please know you’re not alone. Reach out. There’s room for your story here.