This afternoon, a daughter brought her father to see me. There was no fanfare, just quiet footsteps into the sanctuary, the kind that carry years of weight. Her father has lived through long seasons of homelessness. He continues to navigate the labyrinth of addiction, the ache of family trauma, and the toll of physical suffering. His body tells stories of survival. His spirit, though weary, still reaches for something more.
And yet, he came. And she came with him. And in that coming, something sacred unfolded. We didn’t solve anything today. There were no breakthroughs or resolutions. But we sat together. We listened. We bore witness to a story that has been silenced too often, dismissed too easily. And in that listening, something holy stirred.
He spoke of the love and acceptance he feels from his daughter and grandkids. That love is not abstract, it’s embodied, persistent, healing. It’s what brought him here. It’s what makes him want to change.
He also spoke of the modular house where he currently lives. It has a roof and walls, better than the street, yes, but it is not safe. The environment is toxic, laced with drug trafficking and despair. It’s hard to heal in a place that keeps reopening wounds. He wants to leave. He wants something better. He wants to live.
And I’m glad we’ll meet again. That there will be space to check in, to be accountable, to share thoughts and stories, and to pray together. Healing rarely happens in isolation. It happens in relationship, in the slow, sacred rhythm of presence.
I saw a daughter’s fierce love, tender, exhausted, unwavering. I saw a man who has survived more than most could imagine, still searching for a place to rest, to be seen, to be held without judgment. I saw the ache of generational wounds and the fragile hope that maybe, just maybe, healing is still possible.
Ministry is not always about answers. Sometimes it’s about showing up when the world has turned away. It’s about holding space for stories that are messy, painful, and unfinished. It’s about believing that dignity is not earned; it’s inherent.
Today reminded me that presence is powerful. That compassion is not a strategy; it’s a posture. And that when a daughter brings her father, she is carrying more than a person; she is carrying a prayer.
May we be the kind of community that receives that prayer with reverence. May we be the kind of church that believes in the possibility of change, even when the path is steep. And may we never forget that love, especially the kind that shows up, is the beginning of healing.
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